Cars are like relationships. Here’s your choice:

Fast and furious: Thrills that run the risk of breaking down pretty quickly, parts strewn along the road and perhaps a long spell in the garage afterwards. Or dull, dependable partners that don’t provide those heights of excitement but who’ll always get you there in the end. And they’ll keep on doing it year after year. Great.

But then there’s the clever bloke that nobody really appreciates when you first meet him at the party.

Quiet, understated and perhaps not the best-looking guy in the room – all too easy to ignore at first glance. But you get chatting and he turns out to be really quite funny, and that cleverness is very useful. You might leave the party with the handsome tyrant, but when you find out later (thoroughly exhausted) from a friend that your clever, interesting acquaintance has left the country for a job abroad you feel more than a pang of heartache. You wish you’d made more of your time together and make a resolution not to squander missed opportunities…

And so it is with the Honda FR-V. We had the chance to spend some quality Christmas time with an EX 2.2 i-CTDi. To you and me this means the posh diesel version with a manual gearbox. It costs £21,476, so it’s not a bargain but then again it’s just so…clever. So clever, in fact, that not many people got on with at the the party and Honda have decided to send it to a premature retirement.

Which is a great shame. The FR-V seats six with no effort (on leather chairs with the EX). Yes, six. Not five or indeed the ubiquitous seven. And therein probably lies the root of its demise. We’ve all come to expect five or seven. “I need a seven-seater!” is the constant war-cry of yummy-mummy parenthood. Even though it’s a rare moment indeed when all seven seats are occupied and woe-betide you if you want to fill the boot as well. Or indeed park. The FR-V, however, seats six people of normal, human, dimensions, and still has a huge boot to boot. It’s a short car too, easy to park and fun to throw around. Quite wide, but manageable nonetheless.

When you don’t need six seats, the middle-front seat folds forward to reveal an incredibly useful table-like armrest with four cupholders. There are two more cupholders under the dash, so nobody will ever go thirsty in an FR-V. And talking of the dash, it provides a home to the gear-stick, handbrake, heater and stereo controls, leaving the space underneath completely free from intrusions and therefore offering your centre passenger all the legroom they need.

Needless to say, kids love it. During our time with the car the driver was the only adult allowed up front. No car sickness and the “best view ever” from the 11 and 6 year-olds. Result.

Downsides? Well, at speed there’s more noise from the tyres than we’d like and the key doesn’t fold up. And it looks quirky. On the other hand you get beautiful, sophisticated materials inside, bullet-proof build quality, space and…those quirky looks.

So two years on from Women and Wheels’ first encounter with the FR-V (the video and stills used here are from that test) it’s even more desirable than before. Perhaps that’s because we know we can’t have one? Personally we can’t even afford a used one (Honda’s second-hand values are the envy of many other manufacturers but a source of frustration for the casual bargain-hunter). Or perhaps it’s because Honda aren’t going to make any more FR-V’s? They’re still available new from dealers though, so…

The moral of the tale? Don’t let the clever one slip away again. Grab him while you can.